Omg! :( I also stumbled across this article in hope I could find some self help about BPD and how to help my relationship get back to normal again, after a breakdown that happened a few months ago. When I came across this article, I was disgusted that people with my condition are labelled as “unloving” and “sick”.. I think personally, it’s “sick” that the person who wrote this article probably hasn’t got a clue what there talking about, and has stemmed this article from a bad experience they have had. No, not all people with BPD are “manipulative “ or “abusive” . I feel the person who wrote this, has absolutely 0 respect for anyone but themselves, and needs to come out of the dark ages! Disgusting!