TJ Kamat
December, 31 2022 at 2:03 pm

What a solid response and stance to a sticky and emotionally charged and controversial issue! I was ghosted by someone online about a year ago. I had no resolution, recourse or any insight into why she did it other than to dis me after a few months of a connection. I didn't like what she did and had extra anxiety and a moodswing over it. I learned a lot about myself, my interests, needs and wants through that situation. I got some books and online courses and apps that have been helpful. I wasn't medicated well and became hypomanic for a while. She also had a moodswing and a downturn over the Holidays last year and then ended up getting more help. I began texting her too late for me bc of time zone differences and had some other issues.
I have found that I need blue light lenses to use my phone and tablet and to read more paper books at night than digital books. I also need to set specific work amd texting hours. Thanks for the good post.